6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off

6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off!

Men, are you hot…Or not?

Here are six all-too-common mistakes men make that turn women off.

1. You’re too respectful.

Don’t give her your card, respectfully ask for hers. And don’t think that ravishing passion is disrespectful, it turns a whole lot of women on.

2. You try to be too sensitive.

Yes, be compassionate. Yes, speak from your heart. But don’t give up your balls and your confidence doing it.



3. You think aggressive and assertive are bad words and bad behaviors.

Kissing her up against the wall or holding her hands above her head in bed, those are turn-ons for a lot of women. And oh by the way, she wants to know that you can protect her.

4. You’re the nice guy.

You try too hard to make her happy. Yes, her happiness is part of your masculine generosity, but if you’re doing it so she’ll like you or she won’t think you’re a jerk, it’s totally a turn-off.

5. You judge your sexuality as too much.

No, you don’t have to act out every sexual urge or desire, but if you disown it, it owns and controls you. And you and your partner miss out on so much hot passion.

6. You avoid your vulnerability and emotions.

It’s not about being too sensitive. It’s not about being too alpha. It’s not about balance. It’s about being 100% you. And your emotions are sexy.

Do you recognize these mistakes men make that turn women off?

If the men in your life are making these mistakes or if you’re “guilty” of these mistakes men make, then it’s time to discover what a hot and happy soul love relationship looks like!

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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  1. Scott on January 31, 2022 at 12:30 pm

    Love it!

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