6 Mistakes Women Make That Drive Men Away

6 Mistakes Women Make That Drive Men Away!

Ladies do you ever wonder why the great men disappear? Ever wondered, why they’re just not so great after a while? Here are six all too common mistakes women make with men that drive the great ones away.

1. You want him to be sensitive, and you don’t want him to be sensitive.

It just doesn’t work!  You can’t have a man melting in emotion and being your strong hero, all at once.

He’s going to feel your frustration, your disappointment.

He’s going to feel like he can’t win.

And he will quit!

2. You don’t receive.

Masculine men want to contribute to you.

Let them!

It will make you happy, it will make them happy.

Build your receiving muscle.

3. You try to be equal and independent.

Equality kills passion. It zaps the spark of polarity between the masculine and the feminine.

And, independence builds barriers.  You can’t have true partnership if you’re totally independent.

You have to be willing to be inter-dependent.



4. You don’t rest.

Women are at their worst, mentally, emotionally, physically, when they’re exhausted.

We can’t love and be loved when we’re empty.

Fill up!

Take care of you.

5. You try to keep it all together.

Men don’t need us to be perfect.

Where do the men in our lives get to contribute and offer their generosity, if we’re trying to manage it all?

Ladies, hint:  Men like to be needed.

6. You make surrender a bad word.

You can’t have an amazing orgasm if you’re in control.

It doesn’t work.

You can’t trust if you’re always in control.

Pleasure, trust, and love require surrender.

In the meantime, ladies, stop making these easy mistakes women make with men and watch your happiness and pleasure skyrocket! 

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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