Advanced Kissing Techniques

Advanced Kissing Techniques

Want kissing to get really hot and steamy again?  Try out the suggestions below…  

Before I give you any techniques or practices, the first thing you want to remember is… make time for making out… we do it when we first meet, we do it for hours when we’re young.  I suggest doing it much more often and trying these new ideas!   We might think, “Everyone knows how to kiss… but no… not everyone is a great kisser.”  Are you?

To get started, the different areas of the lips have entirely different sensations and experiences to them… notice how the upper lip feels different than the bottom lip as do the inside and outside of the lip.  Slow down and really explore your partners lips and mouth… take note of his or her reactions, you might find a new exciting spot!

Here’s a hint… You’ve probably heard me suggest practicing giving and receiving before… This is the time to start practicing giving and receiving during a kiss.  It truly enhances the experience!  (And if you are practicing it for the first time, you might mention it to your partner, because if you just start receiving (ie. not giving/doing – your partner might wonder what happened!)  Let the flow of the kiss guide you back and forth in a sexy dance.  It’s worth practicing… I promise!

Try this… There are several “techniques” when kissing… so vary your style!  Keep it hot… surprise him or her with a hot erotic new move…  I suggest varying your style several times during one long passionate kiss!  oooh!  Here are some of them.. just let your lips slide across each other (make sure the lips are pretty moist before you do this one!  The slow sensation with less pressure can drive you wild in anticipation… then you can suck gently, flick your tongue… even nibble!  (You’ll see in the video!)

One more… vary the intensity of the kiss… from soft and slow to firm and passionate to tender and romantic to wild passion… let your kisses run wild!

Practice your kissing this week… Singles… you can practice on your own hand or if want really practice… ask a good friend and just get curious with each other… you’ll both learn something I promise and you’ll take all that wisdom to your next relationship!!  Couples… go for it!

Here’s to hot happy kissing!

Want more kissing secrets? 

Here’s the biggest secret: great kissing blends skillful technique and utter presence.

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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  1. Patrick on September 11, 2013 at 8:25 pm

    Congrats on the show Joanna! Will attempt to catch it, and btw, nice datecamp video! Awesome.

  2. Jim V on April 20, 2022 at 8:35 am

    Thanks for the kissing notes Joanna; made me smile….delicious memories. Still looking for that kissing partner!

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