The Most Common Physical Intimacy Issues and How to Overcome Them

physical intimacy issues

No matter how compatible the partners, any long-standing, soulful, romantic relationship will face physical intimacy issues during the relationship. Period. Full stop. It’s not uncommon to start facing them in the early weeks of dating, sometimes even the first time we make love, or the first time we intimately touch.  As the relationship progresses over…

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Physical Intimacy in a Relationship Matters

physical intimacy in a relationship

How important is physical intimacy in a relationship? Very. Physical intimacy in all its forms plays an essential role in lasting relationships where both partners truly feel happy together. Many partnerships do survive years, sometimes decades without physical intimacy, yet almost never, would either partner say they felt joy, satisfaction or real peace in that…

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Intimacy Issues: 51 Common Signs of Intimacy Issues

intimacy issues

Intimacy issues take on many forms and show up in many different ways in our daily lives. While we often associate intimacy with romantic relationships as you’ll see below, your relationship with intimacy itself plays out in practically every area of your life.  It’s important also to make note of the fact that when many…

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Masculinity is Not Toxic

masculinity is not toxic

No matter what you’ve heard, no matter how true it might seem, masculinity is not toxic. Using that phrase might feel righteous, it might feel empowering, it might even feel liberating to proclaim and project that masculinity is toxic, but it’s simply not true. The real truth is that using the phrase is toxic. It’s…

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Why do Relationships Fail: The 8 Primary Relationship Failure Patterns

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If you’re asking the question, “Why do relationships fail?” you’re likely experiencing one of two things. Either you’re recovering from a breakup or divorce, or you’re likely considering one or the other. Conscious partnerships thrive because they know the best ways to keep the love strong and the passion alive. Most importantly, conscious soul mates…

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The Insidious Ways Self Abandonment Harms Relationships

Self Abandonment Harms Relationships

If you’re like most people, you’ve rarely if ever heard the term self abandonment. Yet relating to yourself and relating to your relationships in this way can cause untold – yet unnecessary – heartache.  The ways that self abandonment harms relationships, while insidious and truly destructive, have only recently been given credit for the havoc…

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5 Ways to Escape Your Love Comfort Zone and Experience True Love

5 Ways to Escape Your Love Comfort Zone and Experience True Love

If you stay in your love comfort zone you will never have the relationship or the sex you want.  Period.  What you desire… what you hunger for… what you long for… exists outside your love comfort zone.   Everything you currently experience in life, love and sex happens inside your comfort zone. What is Your Love…

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Can I be perfect? Not if you want love…

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I’ll answer the question, “Can I be perfect?” right up front. It is impossible to be perfect.  You can’t be perfect.  Your mom can’t be perfect.  Your kid can’t be perfect. Your husband, wife, lover can’t be perfect.  Your dog can’t be perfect.   The weather can’t be perfect. Perfect is impossible.  Let me say that…

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