The Insidious Ways Self Abandonment Harms Relationships

Self Abandonment Harms Relationships

If you’re like most people, you’ve rarely if ever heard the term self abandonment. Yet relating to yourself and relating to your relationships in this way can cause untold – yet unnecessary – heartache.  The ways that self abandonment harms relationships, while insidious and truly destructive, have only recently been given credit for the havoc…

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Why am I Still Single? The ONE Reason

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If you’re asking why am I still single despite trying, I have good news. Getting over being single, when you don’t want to be, only requires that you address one issue. Many will give you a whole list of potential reasons you’re single or they’ll point to things you should “fix” in your life. But…

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Can I be perfect? Not if you want love…

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I’ll answer the question, “Can I be perfect?” right up front. It is impossible to be perfect.  You can’t be perfect.  Your mom can’t be perfect.  Your kid can’t be perfect. Your husband, wife, lover can’t be perfect.  Your dog can’t be perfect.   The weather can’t be perfect. Perfect is impossible.  Let me say that…

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Unwrap This: 10 Reasons Your Soulmate Can’t See You

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If you’re in a relationship, are you wishing to be seen more fully and connect more deeply? If you are single, are you hoping Santa will deliver your soulmate this year? Without a doubt, experiencing that spark of connection and passion would put a smile on just about anyone’s face right now… Snuggling by a…

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Get Out of the Friend Zone Now

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Ending up in the friend zone can leave us wondering so many things about ourselves, none of them typically positive. Not only are we dealing with a potential blow to our self-esteem from rejection, we also have to face the feelings of loss that may arise because we don’t get to spend more intimate time…

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The #1 Reason Relationships Fail

The 1 Reason Relationships Fail

Would you like to know the #1 reason why relationships fail and make sure it doesn’t happen to you?   The number one reason why relationships fail is because YOU aren’t actually in it. You might be saying, wait a second, I was the one having sex, I was the one crying the tears, I…

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