6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off

6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off

What are the most common mistakes men make with women? Shocking to most men, they almost all have to do with a resistance to, or a denial of, masculinity. So many men have been conditioned to believe their masculinity is toxic, but nothing could be further from the truth. Masculinity, in and of itself, is…

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Why do you Block Love?

Why do you Block Love

Why do you block love?  I know… your first answer is “I don’t!  I want love.  I don’t block it!  I seek it… all the time!”  Or maybe your answer is “I don’t block it… but it’s just not out there for me.  All the good ones are taken.  No one my age is as…

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The Light & Shadow of Love & Sex

shadow of love

We might imagine that everything we do in the name of love or pleasure is “good”.  On the flip side, we might also imagine that anything someone does to ignite love or passion in us has “ulterior” motives.  Both are extremes in thinking, in consciousness.  Some are so fearful of love, intimacy and passion that they…

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Stop Separating from Love

We all want to be loved AND way too often we run from love… and we don’t even know it. The same goes for pleasure and joy.  We want it and we avoid it simultaneously.  The old “one foot on the gas with one foot on the brake” adage applies here.  As a matter of…

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Is your Heart Open?

openheart

Open the heart to life.  Open the heart to love. The heart center holds an enormous amount of power in our lives. We might say it acts as the gateway to our experience of life. How open or un-open our heart remains in any moment dictates how much love, joy, bliss and peace we experience in…

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How I Screwed Up Love (Raw & Vulnerable)

Joanna Shakti

I’m being really raw, real and vulnerable here…  I’m telling you the real truth of what my romantic world used to look like… sharing stuff I’ve never shared publically before. And some of you may think “OMG, She did that…”  And, that’s ok.  For others, my story will change their life. I’m sharing because I…

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Right Between the Eyes…

Indulge me for moment… you’ll soon see why what hit me between the eyes might be damaging your relationship or your chances of one… Last night I fell asleep (well tried to) with an intense headache in the front section of my head. It taunted me most of the night. Just a bit remains this…

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Healing Heartache

Healing Heartache

If you’ve ever loved, you’ve felt the ache in your heart of disappointment, letdown, hurt feelings, or even betrayal. Unless you’re one of the rare few who met the love of their life in their early teens (Yes, this does happen… I know couples like this) then you’ve likely known the deepest pain of breakup… even…

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The Scary Desire

Do you suffer from “the scary desire?” Many times when faced with a choice or opportunity, we find ourselves considering every detail, weighing the pros and cons, and trying to “logic” our way through the decision.  Unfortunately, we tend not to notice the “sub-routines”, the “sub-conscious programs,” running in our primitive brain that often sabotage…

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