Get Out of the Friend Zone Now

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Ending up in the friend zone can leave us wondering so many things about ourselves, none of them typically positive. Not only are we dealing with a potential blow to our self-esteem from rejection, we also have to face the feelings of loss that may arise because we don’t get to spend more intimate time…

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Who Pursues in Dating & Relating?

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Ever wonder who pursues? Who’s supposed to do what when, in this dance of dating and relating? I get asked all the time. In online dating should I wink? Should I write? Should I give him my number? Should I pay? Should I call? They’re all great questions.   Here’s four simple guidelines on “Who…

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6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off

6 Mistakes Men Make that Turn Women Off

What are the most common mistakes men make with women? Shocking to most men, they almost all have to do with a resistance to, or a denial of, masculinity. So many men have been conditioned to believe their masculinity is toxic, but nothing could be further from the truth. Masculinity, in and of itself, is…

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Masculine Feminine Test: Are You More Masculine or Feminine?

Masculine Feminine Test

Have you wondered, “Am I more masculine or feminine?” Would you like sparks of attraction from across the room, unforgettable kisses, and passionate sex? And Who doesn’t?  If you DO… then you absolutely must know your sexual essence…because when you do, and you stay aligned with it, sparks fly. When you don’t, passion fizzles. No…

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Weekend Practice : Pursuit

Who pursues in dating

Singles and couples… this practice is for both of you! And, before we can talk about how to play the pursuit game, you have to know what turns you on.  You have to know what you desire. So I have a couple questions for you to ask yourself so you know what you really desire.…

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6 Ways a Woman Can Feel Safer in Bed

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In an intimate relationship between a masculine man and a feminine woman, the quality of the relationship will be dictated by how safe the woman feels.  In my programs, I teach a simple yet profound ‘Relationship Needs Model’, developed by author Phil Gilliam, that defines the 6 core needs of men and women in romantic…

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Hot or Not? Part 2

Continuing from where we left off last week, this week let’s explore what it takes to be hot (or not) in romantic relationship. This is actually one of the topic of the BIG live special events I’m hosting later this month called Creating Chemistry. That’s really what we’re talking about here when we ask, “Are…

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Creating Chemistry — Maintaining Attraction

If you’re at all like me a decade ago, you know the words masculine and feminine, yet you haven’t really considered how they play out in your life.  When I discovered the power… and the challenge… of their dance, the reality shocked me. I share part of my story with you in hopes that it…

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