Believe it or not, answering the question, “Why am I still single?” is easier than you might imagine.  I hear the longing, the pain, the disappointment, frustration, sadness and too often resignation from great single men and women.  I see great people, I mean really great people with a lot to offer, fumble and stumble,…

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I’ll answer the question, “Can I be perfect?” right up front. It is impossible to be perfect.  You can’t be perfect.  Your mom can’t be perfect.  Your kid can’t be perfect. Your husband, wife, lover can’t be perfect.  Your dog can’t be perfect.   The weather can’t be perfect. Perfect is impossible.  Let me say that…

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Self-Love is

Are you living the antithesis of self love?  In my experience, most of the population is – men and women alike. Do you judge yourself?  Criticize yourself? Do you see and acknowledge every little flaw in what you do? Do you try to ignore, deny, or hide the parts of you that you think others…

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Are you hiding or are you being seen when it comes to dating and relationships?  Or in life, for that matter? Let’s focus on romantic interactions for now… but you’ll see how the same practice applies to all relationships.  Then later I’ll share with you how you take one big leap into being seen.  …

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Does the thought of self-love frustrate you, confuse you, even piss you off? It was the bane of my existence for so many years. There was a guy in college who literally said I am not going to date you because you don’t love yourself.  And then five years later, I find myself divorced from a different…

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YOU are sacred.  You are a sacred vessel of light. You are a sacred being of love. And, I am most grateful that I have the opportunity to serve you.  I honor you from the depths of my heart and wish you immense love.   It is with honor that you treat someone or something…

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The brilliance of you… There is nothing more valuable than you.  Now that might sound self-centered and arrogant and I invite you to hear me out.

Yes… interaction with others can ignite

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You… unadorned… unfiltered… unihibited… simple…genuine…true… this is what we want.  This genuine and authentic you is the most attractive, sexy, generous thing you could bring to

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Authenticity or Perfection What do You Choose

You can’t have both. Which do you choose? Trying to choose both is a path fraught with depression, failure, and unhappiness. Let’s look at both paths… One path drives you first to continuously scan for this moment’s definition of perfect and it’s always changing. The other? It’s easy to love you and easy to be loved by you because there’s no pretense… no hiding… no maneuvering… no game playing. Need I say more?

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For the masculine men, we’ll get right to the point… and then I’ll tell you the story behind it.  

I’ll get to prince charming in a minute, but first…

What is imperfection meant you were real?

What is imperfection meant you were healthy?

What imperfection meant

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