Self Love
The Insidious Ways Self Abandonment Harms Relationships
If you’re like most people, you’ve rarely if ever heard the term self abandonment. Yet relating to yourself and relating to your relationships in this way can cause untold – yet unnecessary – heartache. The ways that self abandonment harms relationships, while insidious and truly destructive, have only recently been given credit for the havoc…
Read MoreWhy am I Still Single? 3 Reasons You Can’t Find & Keep Love
Believe it or not, answering the question, “Why am I still single?” is easier than you might imagine. I hear the longing, the pain, the disappointment, frustration, sadness and too often resignation from great single men and women. I see great people, I mean really great people with a lot to offer, fumble and stumble,…
Read MoreCan I be perfect? Not if you want love…
I’ll answer the question, “Can I be perfect?” right up front. It is impossible to be perfect. You can’t be perfect. Your mom can’t be perfect. Your kid can’t be perfect. Your husband, wife, lover can’t be perfect. Your dog can’t be perfect. The weather can’t be perfect. Perfect is impossible. Let me say that…
Read MoreEmbracing You: Self Love is the Source of Soulmate Love
Are you living the antithesis of self love? In my experience, most of the population is – men and women alike. Do you judge yourself? Criticize yourself? Do you see and acknowledge every little flaw in what you do? Do you try to ignore, deny, or hide the parts of you that you think others…
Read MoreAre You Being Seen or Are you Hiding?
Are you hiding or are you being seen when it comes to dating and relationships? Or in life, for that matter? Let’s focus on romantic interactions for now… but you’ll see how the same practice applies to all relationships. Then later I’ll share with you how you take one big leap into being seen. …
Read MoreSelf-Love? How to “Do” Self-Love the Easy Way
Does the thought of self-love frustrate you, confuse you, even piss you off? It was the bane of my existence for so many years. There was a guy in college who literally said I am not going to date you because you don’t love yourself. And then five years later, I find myself divorced from a different…
Read MorePriceless Love
The brilliance of you… There is nothing more valuable than you. Now that might sound self-centered and arrogant and I invite you to hear me out. Yes… interaction with others can ignite the feeling of deep love and without YOU that love can’t be felt or experienced. Here’s where it gets worse… some of us…
Read MoreThe Gift of You
You… unadorned… unfiltered… uninhibited… simple…genuine…true… this is what we want. This genuine and authentic you is the most attractive, sexy, generous thing you could bring to the world. This is what makes you most attractive to the opposite sex. Sure, we love it when a partner or date dresses up and does something special… has…
Read MoreAuthenticity or Perfection: What do You Choose?
Which do you choose? Authenticity or Perfection? You can’t have both and trying to choose both is a path fraught with depression, failure, and unhappiness. Need I say more? Let’s look at both paths… Authenticity or Perfection One path drives you, first, to continuously scan for this moment’s definition of perfect… On top of…
Read MorePrince Charming… Good or Bad?
For the masculine men, we’ll get right to the point… and then I’ll tell you the story behind it. I’ll get to prince charming in a minute, but first… What if imperfection meant you were real? What if imperfection meant you were healthy? What if imperfection meant you enjoyed life? What if imperfection that you…
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