Tantra and Sacred sexuality
12 Ancient Secrets of Tantric Energy Exchange
Tantric energy exchange is often misunderstood, in a limited perspective, of the true potential of Tantra. Tantra, originally a set of Eastern spiritual practices, became synonymous with sex as it was brought into our western culture. The adaptation isn’t surprising given the long-standing repression of sexuality in America where, for many, sex has become a…
Read MoreWhat is the Difference Between Making Love and Having Sex?
While being the most extraordinary experience we can have as human beings, the act of making love vs. having sex, doesn’t get enough attention or distinction. True love making, when you’re genuinely making love with another, is an experience of union. Having sex, in general, can create pleasureful moments, but it won’t unite the partners.…
Read MoreSexual Ecstasy: The Pathway to the Infinite
Ancient spiritual masters knew sex to be one of the Tantric pathways to the divine, to the infinite, to God. Uniting body-to-body, extending orgasms, and even experiencing the “Oh God’s” of our greatest pleasure can bring our human bodies into a literal state of union with another human and with the divine itself. I often…
Read MoreTo Have Sex or Not: When Should We Have Sex?
When dating someone new, many of us wonder, “When should we have sex?” Others just “go for it” in the heat of the moment. I suggest giving the question some really conscious attention. You’ll thank yourself, and each other, for it later. After asking “When should we have sex?” … As soon as that first…
Read MoreUp Against the Wall: Kissing Secrets
Ever have a great date, but a lousy kiss? If you’ve wanted a little more spice and a little more spark in your ecstatic kissing, don’t worry. Even if you’re not a great kisser by design, it IS a skill you can learn! Here’s the truth, the quality and frequency of kissing can have a huge…
Read MoreTo Kiss or Not to Kiss: That is the Question
Have you ever wondered, “To kiss or not to kiss?” and how passionately to kiss? We’re going to talk about three keys to kissing with confidence. You cannot think your way through a kiss. You have to be present and feel the energy to have it be good. Here’s the deal… 1) The masculine initiates…
Read MoreSex vs. Intimacy – Which comes first?
Have you ever jumped into bed, in the heat of passion, thinking you can just be intimate later? Have you ever had sex hoping for connection and intimacy? Is it easier to have sex than talk about it? Too often we can battle over sex and intimacy. Why? Because the masculine and feminine want different things.…
Read MoreGet Out of the Friend Zone Now
Are you tired of the friend and roommate zones? Here are three primary reasons that men and women end up in the friend zone… and how to make sure it doesn’t happen to you. First, You neutralize your sexual essence, which means you consciously, or more often unconsciously, turn down your masculine or feminine sexual…
Read MoreWhat is Sacred?
It is with honor that you treat someone or something sacred to you… something that is precious, unique… divine… even priceless. That is you. That is every single person. Every single thing. And, now more than ever, it’s a time to celebrate and honor the sacred beings that we are. All of us. No matter the color, the race, the…
Read More7 Sensuality Secrets
Want to skyrocket pleasure? It’s all about sensuality! For the skeptics out there who might think sensuality is a bit fru-fru or too girly… Let me just say… “You are missing out!” If only I’d discovered sensuality in my 20’s instead of my 40’s! Oh the immense pleasure I missed out on. Oh the abandoned, even avoided, moments of…
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