To Have Sex or Not: When Should We Have Sex?

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When dating someone new, many of us wonder, “When should we have sex?” Others just “go for it” in the heat of the moment. I suggest giving the question some really conscious attention. You’ll thank yourself, and each other, for it later.   After asking “When should we have sex?” … As soon as that first…

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Up Against the Wall: Kissing Secrets

Up Against the Wall Kissing Secrets

Ever have a great date, but a lousy kiss?  If you’ve wanted a little more spice and a little more spark in your ecstatic kissing, don’t worry.  Even if you’re not a great kisser by design, it IS a skill you can learn! Here’s the truth, the quality and frequency of kissing can have a huge…

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To Kiss or Not to Kiss: That is the Question

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Have you ever wondered, “To kiss or not to kiss?” and how passionately to kiss? We’re going to talk about three keys to kissing with confidence. You cannot think your way through a kiss. You have to be present and feel the energy to have it be good.  Here’s the deal…     1)  The masculine initiates…

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Sex vs. Intimacy – Which comes first?

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Have you ever jumped into bed, in the heat of passion, thinking you can just be intimate later? Have you ever had sex hoping for connection and intimacy?  Is it easier to have sex than talk about it? Too often we can battle over sex and intimacy. Why? Because the masculine and feminine want different things.…

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Get Out of the Friend Zone Now

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Ending up in the friend zone can leave us wondering so many things about ourselves, none of them typically positive. Not only are we dealing with a potential blow to our self-esteem from rejection, we also have to face the feelings of loss that may arise because we don’t get to spend more intimate time…

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What is Sacred?

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It is with honor that you treat someone or something sacred to you… something that is precious, unique… divine… even priceless. That is you. That is every single person. Every single thing. And, now more than ever, it’s a time to celebrate and honor the sacred beings that we are. All of us. No matter the color, the race, the…

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7 Sensuality Secrets

7 Sensuality Secrets

Want to skyrocket pleasure?  It’s all about sensuality! For the skeptics out there who might think sensuality is a bit fru-fru or too girly… Let me just say… “You are missing out!”  If only I’d discovered sensuality in my 20’s instead of my 40’s!  Oh the immense pleasure I missed out on.  Oh the abandoned, even avoided, moments of…

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The Light & Shadow of Love & Sex

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We might imagine that everything we do in the name of love or pleasure is “good”.  On the flip side, we might also imagine that anything someone does to ignite love or passion in us has “ulterior” motives.  Both are extremes in thinking, in consciousness.  Some are so fearful of love, intimacy and passion that they…

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Tantric Energy Pump

Tantric Energy Pump

Sexual energy is life force energy.  It’s creative energy.  It’s manifesting energy.  Tantric and sexual energy, rooted in our second chakra, becomes even more powerful when we draw it out and beyond the sexual center into the rest of our energy centers.  Drawing that energy upward and outward also extends our most pleasurable intimate experiences,…

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Is your Heart Open?

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Open the heart to life.  Open the heart to love. The heart center holds an enormous amount of power in our lives. We might say it acts as the gateway to our experience of life. How open or un-open our heart remains in any moment dictates how much love, joy, bliss and peace we experience in…

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