Soulful Relating Retreat

(Conscious Relating Retreat)

Where Conscious Relating & Soulful Love Meet

There was a battle between who I was supposed to be and who I really was…

I blamed men, but it wasn't about men. 

What most of us now know is that Masculine and Feminine Energies can get confused, misdirected, misused and frankly, overdeveloped. What's most important is that we discover who we are authentically. And, know which energy is our primary energy, or sexual essence.

When masculine and feminine dysfunction dynamics are at play, the ability to communicate, empathize, and trust ourselves and each other is hindered - or worse - creates a distance that is often insurmountable. 

Gratefully I've led countless men and women out of the contrived versions of masculinity and femininity so they might discover the most attractive, powerful, and relatable versions of themselves and each other.

I hope you'll join us.

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Broomfield, Colorado (Near Denver/Boulder)


Gateway to Conscious Relating

Set amidst the stunning backdrop of the Rocky Mountains, conscious singles and couples coming together committed to soulfully passionate relationships. This integrative and introspective weekend (all questions welcome) offers a quiet respite for our hectic daily life, to explore connection, re-connection, intimacy and passion. As you arrive at our in person location you'll immediately experience the welcome embrace of like-minded souls on the journey to soulful relating and conscious relationships. 

Event Details

The entire Soulful Relating weekend retreat is designed to clearly show you the patterns and habits that unconsciously sabotage connection, intimacy and passion. Understand the foundation of intimate relationships through embodied wholeness and the true masculine-feminine dance.

This powerful and transformative weekend filled with other conscious men and women, like you, will radically shift your relationship with love and intimacy.

You'll walk away with a more open heart for intimate loving and know how to step into the truth of you - knowing your capacity to give and receive love - while attracting (or re-attracting) your soulmate.


A Note to Singles

...before you meet someone amazing – turn up your confidence, your clarity, your love… and even your sexiness.

When you're still single is the time to decide that you’ll never again settle, sell yourself out, or twist yourself into a pretzel to find or keep love.

It doesn’t work if you wait to figure out all this relating “stuff” until after you’ve met your “One”.  That’s too late.  You want to bring this wisdom, skill and experience to your next date… to your next relationship rather than fumbling through those initial conversations, your first time in bed together, and even your first fight.

The Experience


On the Evening of Day 1 and the Morning of Day 2: Leave the "Unenlightened" Baggage Behind

Your "Soulful Relating" Intensive Retreat begins with experiences and exercises designed to remove the blocks and barriers to love, intimacy, and relationship that might exist within you. You'll clear out beliefs, habits, fears, and judgments that have been limiting you from opening your heart fully to the depths of love. You'll leave behind "walls of protection" that keep you from accessing and experiencing true romantic intimacy.

Releasing all that, you'll be able to take your life, love and lovemaking to levels of intimacy you've only imagined before.


Day 2 Afternoon: Ecstatic & Sexy Men & Women

On the afternoon of day two, you'll get completely clear on your masculine or feminine sexual essences. You'll literally practice walking, talking, and standing in your true nature. And, along the way, you'll get plenty of great personalized feedback. The feminine will inspire the masculine to step into its presence, mojo, passion, and confidence. The masculine will help the feminine step into its grace, presence, radiance, and confidence.


Day 3: Getting Intimate

Finally, on day three, we'll dive deep into the tools, skills, and practices you need to create deep intimacy-emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy-with a romantic partner. We'll explore the differences between how men and women communicate so that you can learn how to "translate" our different languages. Plus, you'll learn our shared language of intimacy (and it's not what you think!) Finally, you'll put into practice all aspects of conscious and intimate communication so that you know how to connect at the deepest levels of your heart, reduce the number of upsets, move through inevitable challenges more quickly (with less heartache) and know exactly how heartfelt intimacy sets the stage for ecstatic lovemaking.

We'll create a space for learning, questions, conversations, and honesty between men and women as they share with each other what truly creates the most attractive, intimacy, loving and passionate experiences for each other.

"As I am a mentor to my grand daughters, I think passing on what I have learned and also encouraging them to attend a Soul Love Retreat, where they can learn first hand the importance of this information and putting it into practice in their lives. None of this was available to my generation, we learned at the school of hard knocks. To have access to a Soul Love Retreat is a gift." 


"The retreat was so beneficial to my wife and I.  Gaining an understanding of the basics of masculine and feminine energies really helped us understand ourselves and each other better.  The course also gave us tools to relate to each other in a more positive and loving manner.  Great value, great mentorship, and great group of people!!"


"I was resistant to try this retreat, very resistant, as I am coming out of a breakup and thought "what am I doing in a relationship retreat?". But, it was so powerful and taught me so much about myself and how I relate in relationship with others that I'm still processing all that I learned. And the intimacy of the gathering, the sharing, the sacred nature of the event allowed me to do some heavy looking inward and gave me hope that I will have the type of love I am seeking. I feel that this retreat can serve anyone that wants to become more intimate with themselves and others. I am so grateful that I gave it a chance, because I feel I walked away from it able to embrace my grief, my love, my self, while also shifting toward letting go. Thank you so much for all you do Joanna!"


"I really believe this work can benefit everyone. It's been such a fruitful path for me to explore my relationship with feminine and masculine energies - it truly shows up EVERYWHERE in my life. Joanna does an amazing job creating a space of deep learning as well as a safe place to practice embodying these energies differently - I had many a-ha moments inside the workshop, and have left with a clear understanding inside myself of how I can play and practice with these concepts in my own life. No shame or judgment here, just an amazing opportunity to explore your authentic self, let go of some old baggage, and witness a group of people blossoming :)"

~ E.

"The retreat material is so well structured and the insights into masculine/feminine energy and relating are presented in such a way that it felt like a lightbulb was flashing in my head as realisations that things I've done in the past were out of alignment with my true essence. I loved the breakout sessions where we got to practice our walk, talk and standing and get honest feedback. Joanna is truly a shining example of the feminine. She presents the information in a way that keeps participants engaged and creates a safe space to be vulnerable which allows for personal growth."

~ S.

"One of the great things about this retreat was the excellent people that were going through this with me.  Many of the men had similar experiences or were going through experiences that I had been through so we could all relate and help support each other.  This companionship of shared experiences allowed me to relax even more.  One key take-away that I had is that everything that I see and interpret is all through me. Basically, no more blaming anyone or anything for things.  I realized that things happen for a reason and it all comes down to how I react to them.  (Deep sigh...)"

~ S.

"I just experienced an awesome workshop with Joanna…  I could certainly recommend it to anyone who wants to expand their understanding of relationships and their understanding of themselves. Extremely well presented and covered a very wide range of topics.  Joanna managed to cover those topics in sufficient detail and with personal experience so that each topic became a valuable tool to allow us to analyze ourselves. I'm looking forward to a much better relationship with my wife and certainly with myself." 

~ H.




September 22-24, 2023

Broomfield, CO  (near Denver/Boulder)


*late registration $697 after Sept. 21

What's Included: 

2.5 Days of Experiential and Interactive Transformation

3-hour Paving the Way to Soul Love Training to watch at your leisure

60-minute Private Igniting Soul Experience with Joanna

Bring a Friend or Partner for Free

Have any questions?

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Call us at +1 303-956-2796

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(Spaces are limited)


Ecstatic Ecstasy - Where Heart and Sex Unite and Spirit Leads

"We forget the privilege it is to place our hands, our lips, our bodies upon another body. The deepest ecstasy demands your deepest presence, your true reverence to the sacred one before you. Only when you bring your whole heart united with your soul may you enter into divine union with another."


~Joanna Shakti