Are you craving more passion in your life? Ask yourself…
In your personal life… What lights you up? In your romantic life… What turns you on? In your professional life… Why are you here?
We’re going to explore romantic passion today and first… check in with yourself. Do know the answers to these questions? If not, you will start to ignite passion in all areas of your life by answering these questions… And, even if you just kinda-sorta-know the answers, you have all you need to begin enjoying even more passion and pleasure!
The passion in our relationship comes from the passion inside of us… our passionate energy combined with the passionate energy of a partner makes fireworks go off! Now, that’s not to say that the passion in a relationship is all about sexual passion and it’s a key component of the relationship’s passion.
Do you feel free within yourself to express your fullest of passions?
Your access to your full range of passion has a very direct correlation to the level of passion you experience together in your relationship. Look closely when you ask yourself the above question… Do you allow yourself to truly let go in the presence of physical pleasure? Can you fully surrender into where the pleasure takes you? Do you express your passion with sound, with words? Do you express passion with your touch? Do you express it with your eyes?
I used to think I was incredibly sexually expressive… and I always used to wonder and complain about what’s wrong with the men in my life? Why are they so repressed? …Then I realized they weren’t. I was… Or at least if they were repressed, I was too.
I had to learn to let myself be much more fully expressed… so I could experience the passion I craved. The other interesting fact was that looking back, if I’d reviewed the rest of my life, I’d have noticed there was no passion there either – career, hobbies, friends, activities… Life was pretty middle of the road… ho, hum without a lot of juice.
Had I noticed that at the time, it could have been a hint that my experience (or lack of experience) with men and sexual passion was my creation not his.
Now men, some of you may be saying you are fully expressed …and I ask you, how are you holding back… in your words, touch, energy, sound, actions? There is always more potential for passion and pleasure. Where are your comfort zones and you ready to step beyond them and expand your pleasure boundaries?
Expand your pleasure boundaries
Hint hint: These are some of the initial keys to truly expanding your physical pleasure boundaries… and I’ll share more of these in a couple of weeks.
In love, light and ecstasy,
*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.