Deeper Love: Why I do what I do…
Sometimes I even wonder why I do what I do… and then it quickly comes flooding back to me…
I know the pain of shutdown and breakdown.
I know the pain of divorce.
I know the pain of break up after break up.
I know the pain of self-hatred… of feeling valueless, worthless.
I know the pain of pushing love away.
I know the path of self-sabotage, even self-abuse and self-destruction.
And, I found my way through. I want you to find your way through.
Am I perfect now? Do I have the perfect life? The perfect relationship?
I know I’m a spiritual being, guided by a higher force and that when I trust spirit… I’m never safer to be me.
I know my trust in spirit creates trust in me, which creates trust in others, and that’s where deeper love and partnership bloom.
I’m finally okay being human and inherently imperfect.
I know who I am in my perfect imperfection and I love it. And I’m finally becoming free to be me… To be happy… to be truly successful.
I finally know what I want, what I need, and what makes me happy (well most of the time and as much as any woman can)… and I stand for it… although imperfectly… But I stand for it and when I fall down, when I mess up, I get back up again… because love is worth it.
What’s cool now is that I have the tools, wisdom, and love to pick up the pieces, clean up the mess, reconnect with love, when the imperfect real human me shows up… Everyday…
And that’s real love.
There’s even a cherry on top for me… I get to help others do the same. I have the honor an privilege every day to help men, women, singles, and couples who have also struggled with love and intimacy… who hunger for deeper love and intimate pleasure… to find and create relationships that are an expression of ecstatic authenticity, intimacy and ecstasy. If you’d like to know more, please check out my gifts for men and my gifts for women.
Thank you Spirit for this journey!
In love, light and ecstasy,
*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.