Imagine the Ecstasy

Imagine the Ecstasy: 4 Steps to Soulful Love

When you truly access your soul and its capacity for loving and being loved, everything changes. Soulful love changes from a dream into reality. Your soul is your guide. It’s your confidant, your inspiration, and your protection. And, way too many men and woman, singles and couples, aren’t actually connected to their soul’s expression.

Here’s the best part… when you do get in touch with your soul’s love and connect with another in soul-to-soul love… ecstasy is the result – in life, in love, in bed.


The First Step to Soulful Love

The first step in having a soul-to-soul relationship is to Ignite the Soul Love within you. You see love starts with you. Finding and building a relationship with another, a soulmate, won’t create the experience of love within you. It will amplify the love that already shines from within you.

The problem is, if you’ve struggled with love, and you likely wouldn’t be here if you hadn’t, then a part of your heart may be closed off to the love you hunger for. You may have doubts that true love will ever happen for you. Maybe you’re protecting yourself from being hurt again… and the protection keeps you from trusting love when it shows up.

What that means is that because soul-to-soul love starts with you, you have to re-ignite the soul love in you first and foremost. 

True love, deep intimacy, and real passion only happen when they’re inspired from and aligned with your soul.  You have to access and reconnect to your soul’s desire for love… and this is also an important time to get real about where you’re stuck in patterns that limit love and extinguish passion.

Believe it or not, this step is about having love your way. Not in an egocentric, “I don’t care about you” way, but in an “I’m finally honoring the truth about me and my heart” kind of way…


Soulful Love: Step 2

Imagine feeling absolutely confident, totally sexy and highly attractive … no matter your age, experience, or wisdom when it comes to love and passion.

Imagine being so comfortable in your skin that other’s opinions and judgments no longer matter to you. Rejection becomes “no big deal.”

In this “activating soul love” step, men begin to stand tall, feeling self-assured, and confident to set a woman’s heart on fire and have her melt in your arms. 

In this step, women discover how to fully trust and receive the gifts of the masculine. It’s where affection, attention, and intimacy become the norm, not the exception. 

Now love is possible…


Soulful Love:  Step 3

Singles, couples, imagine having a bond so strong that you are seen, experienced, and loved for all that you are… the good, the bad, the strength, the weakness, the light and the dark. This kind of bond paves the way for the unconditional love our hearts long for.

When you “love soul-to-soul” in step 3, the intimate connection between you deepens each and every day. You know that even in your moments of conflict, two souls are communing and connecting in the highest love.

And that sets the stage for true ecstasy of body, heart and spirit.


Soulful Love: Step 4

When your hearts and bodies unite is passion, when you feel the pulsing of desire with every beat of your heart… when you look into each other’s eyes and see each other’s soul… where you lose track of where one body ends and the other begins… you take each other to realms of ecstasy and beyond.

I call this “loving in ecstatic union” and, for many, the fires of truth, love and passion burn so hot that they melt away anything that obscures your oneness with love. 


Is Your Soul Calling Out for a Soulful Love Connection?

Feel your body… notice what’s stirring. What’s arising for you? It could be excitement and determination. It could be fear and the desire to run. If you’re like many men and women, it’s likely some combination of both.

If your soul is talking… even softly or shyly… even if it’s not sure if it can trust…

Then it’s probably time to meet the fears, the excuses, and the “yeah but’s” that have been holding you back… and finally honor your soul’s fire of love and passion that burns deep within.

It’s a time to step back into your power… a time to choose to move beyond the barriers and limitations of the past… and commit to soulful love and intimate passion… your way.

And, you can only take ONE step at a time. (Thinking about 10 steps does you and your heart absolutely no good. I know. I’ve tried.) You have to take just that one step forward. Then, with new wisdom, you can choose your next step.

So, the first step people take with me toward soulful love is to schedule an Igniting Soul Love Session with me. You can get the details and register here.

Here’s to soulful love!  I look forward to speaking soon!

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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