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Is She Too Strong for Love?

Men, have you ever felt like the woman that you are (or were) with was maybe just a little bit too Type A?  Does it seem easy for her to intimidate men?

Does she show up just a little too masculine for your taste?

Women, have you ever felt like you might intimidate men? Or, have you been frustrated because he just wouldn’t make that first move?

These are telltale signs that a woman’s strength might be getting in the way of love.


Men, here’s what too much strength in a woman can look like from your perspective.

First, she’ll often take charge and then seem irritated that she has to be in charge.

Or, you offer her your help and she’s not great at receiving. Or, maybe she tells you how to do things, and no matter how you do it, it’s never right.

Then… you get less and less interested in helping or being generous… and maybe you even feel emasculated.


Women, here are some sure signs that you are naturally feminine and spending too much time in your masculine energy, and blocking the love that you so crave.

  • You want to feel safe and yet you take charge.
  • You feel like you often intimidate men.
  • You wonder where are all the strong men? Or, “Why can’t I depend on the one I’ve got?”
  • You want him to make plans, but you actually do it so that it goes your way.
  • Or he offers his help and you say “No, no, I got it”, instead of “Thank you.”

Ladies, if this sounds like you, I know what it’s like. I was one of those women.



So, if you intimidate men, or she’s too type ‘A’… What do you do to unblock the love and create the connection?

Men, it’s a signal to turn up your mojo. And men, turn it up to a point… because there are some women, like I used to be, who will unconsciously do anything they can to outman the man in their lives. You can’t “win” with these women until they find their own sexual essence, until they step into their feminine… no matter how great a guy you are.


So guys, here are three easy ways to turn up that masculine mojo:

  1. Be present with her.
  2. Be in the moment.
  3. Be assertive.

Make the plans, take the lead, and be decisive. Don’t make the feminine decide!

Women, it’s an invitation for you to find and step into your feminine. And if you’re not sure that you’re feminine then go take the quick quiz in the video Opposites Attract.


Let me say this ladies, if you want to strengthen something, strengthen your receiving muscle.


Plus, here are three things that you can do to turn up that feminine right now, today.

  1. Let him call you.
  2. Let him carry the groceries.
  3. Or, let him be generous and provide for you. Let him pick up the tab.


Being feminine is not weak. Feminine power is immense.


I invite you to have the courage to let down that guard and let a man truly love you.

And, if you’re ready, you’re invited to receive a savings on a 1-on-1 private session. Schedule an Igniting Soul Love Session and use Promo Code: BLOGGIFT. Together we’ll jumpstart your love life by identifying the very best next steps you can take on your Path of Soul Love.

And, if not, then maybe your heart, your mind, your body, and your spirit would revel in joining us for our Soulful Relating/Conscious Relating Retreat. It is a virtual, sacred journey to a love that is truly everlasting.

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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