Masculine-Feminine Retreat

~ The Divine Masculine Feminine Weekend Retreat ~

Where the Conscious Masculine and Feminine Meet

There was a battle between who I was supposed to be and who I really was…

I blamed men, but it wasn't about men. 

What most of us now know is that Masculine and Feminine Energies can get confused, misdirected, misused and frankly, overdeveloped. What's most important is that we discover who we are authentically. And, know which energy is our primary energy, or sexual essence.

When masculine and feminine dysfunction dynamics are at play, the ability to communicate, empathize, and trust ourselves and each other is hindered - or worse - creates a distance that is often insurmountable. 

Gratefully I've led countless men and women out of the contrived versions of masculinity and femininity so they might discover the most attractive, powerful, and relatable versions of themselves and each other.

I hope you'll join us.

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Broomfield, Colorado

Gateway to Conscious Polarity / Attraction / Chemistry

Set amidst the stunning backdrop of the Rocky Mountains, conscious singles and couples coming together committed to understand the masculine-feminine dynamic. This integrative and introspective weekend (all questions welcome) offers a quiet respite for our hectic daily life, to explore the magnetics of masculine and feminine polarity. As you arrive at our in person location you'll immediately experience the welcome embrace of like-minded souls on the journey to conscious attraction, honoring the self and the other.  

Event Details


The entire Divine Masculine Feminine weekend retreat is designed to clearly show you the patterns and habits that unconsciously sabotage connection, intimacy and passion. Understand the foundation of intimate relationships through embodied wholeness and the true masculine-feminine dance.

This powerful and transformative weekend brings clarity and compassion to the intrinsic differences that have the potential to make relationships extraordinary, and entirely worth our investment. 

You will walk away with a more insightful heart to embrace the things that once created division, yet now bring true union. 


A Note to Singles

It’s when searching for romance that we unknowingly move into our unconscious training as a means to attract the other. It’s this unevolved masculine-feminine dynamic that ultimately sabotages.

To attract our true mate we must cultivate and embody our innate sexual essence, authentically. 

Living your authentic masculinity and femininity is the most captivating, alluring, and respectful expression of yourself. And, this completely-unique-to-you frequency becomes the homing beacon to your true one.

It remains your invitation to celebrate polarity and align with the ecstasy that’s meant for you.

The Experience


On the Evening of Day 1 and the Morning of Day 2: Understanding Masculine & Feminine Energies + the Power of Polarity

Understand your personal authentic masculine and feminine sexual essence expression as you debunk common myths. In that, you’ll realize that masculinity and femininity each hold complementary and harmonious power in the world – and that you need both, integrated, but not necessarily equal. 

Through our exploration of embodied presence, you’ll find an entirely new depth of authenticity and confidence. 


The Remainder of Day 2: Being Attractive, Sexy, and Confident

On the afternoon of day two, you're invited to practice walking, talking, and standing in your true nature, as it feels best to you. You can ask for personalized suggestions from your facilitator and along the way, you'll get plenty of genuine reflections of your truest essence as it comes to life within you. The feminine will inspire the masculine to step into its presence, mojo, passion, and confidence. The masculine will hold space as the feminine opens into its grace, presence, radiance, and confidence.


Day 3: Reconciling Masculine-Feminine Communication

Masculine and feminine beings express themselves differently. They use different words and the same word has different meanings to each. We’ll illuminate the hidden causes of so many misunderstandings and upset as we rewrite the dictionary of masculine and feminine communication dynamics – from the bedroom to the boardroom and everywhere in between. 

After this profoundly eye-opening, and sometimes astonishing, segment you will understand the cause of so many relationship upsets you’ve experienced. Most importantly, you’ll know the #1 fastest way to end an upset. 

We'll create a space for learning, questions, conversations, and honesty between masculine and feminine beings as they share with each other what truly creates the most attractive, intimacy, loving and passionate experiences for each other

"The retreat was so beneficial to my wife and I.  Gaining an understanding of the basics of masculine and feminine energies really helped us understand ourselves and each other better.  The course also gave us tools to relate to each other in a more positive and loving manner.  Great value, great mentorship, and great group of people!!"


"I really believe this work can benefit everyone. It's been such a fruitful path for me to explore my relationship with feminine and masculine energies - it truly shows up EVERYWHERE in my life. Joanna does an amazing job creating a space of deep learning as well as a safe place to practice embodying these energies differently - I had many a-ha moments inside the workshop, and have left with a clear understanding inside myself of how I can play and practice with these concepts in my own life. No shame or judgment here, just an amazing opportunity to explore your authentic self, let go of some old baggage, and witness a group of people blossoming :)"

~ E.

"The retreat material is so well structured and the insights into masculine/feminine energy and relating are presented in such a way that it felt like a lightbulb was flashing in my head as realisations that things I've done in the past were out of alignment with my true essence. I loved the breakout sessions where we got to practice our walk, talk and standing and get honest feedback. Joanna is truly a shining example of the feminine. She presents the information in a way that keeps participants engaged and creates a safe space to be vulnerable which allows for personal growth."

~ S.

“I feel I am more cognitive of my masculine energy and can begin to change the way I show up to be more in line with who I am."  

~ R.

"A unique and amazingly powerful perspective on the masculine and the feminine energies and how they affect our relationship to ourselves and our partner.  With practical applications on how to make changes"

~ L.

"The retreat material is so well structured and the insights into masculine/feminine energy and relating are presented in such a way that it felt like a lightbulb was flashing in my head as realisations that things I've done in the past were out of alignment with my true essence. I loved the breakout sessions where we got to practice our walk, talk and standing and get honest feedback. Joanna is truly a shining example of the feminine. She presents the information in a way that keeps participants engaged and creates a safe space to be vulnerable which allows for personal growth." 

~ S.

"... such an empowering workshop. I know it's going to immensely impact my relationship with my wife who took the course with me.  It was a wonderful time together. We have lots of things to put together and learn and grow with … with this wonderful information about how men and women think differently, behave differently, see things differently, yet how beautifully we complement each other..."

~ C.

from the start I could feel how Joanna created this beautiful and powerful sacred space and there was also a good balance of the masculine and feminine in the room. For me, I went through profound experiences of releasing old baggage that I had in front of my heart…"

~ F.

"...understanding how over time male/female relationships deteriorate was very empowering!  Additional exercises cleared out negative beliefs which diminish a person's interaction and happiness in a male / female relationship."

~ G.

"l learned more about my wife in that weekend than I have in the past three years. Now I have more information that I can use to improve our relationship. Thank you..."

~ T.

"This is an incredible course for both singles and couples and because both attend it's a really great learning experience for everybody and one can only benefit from this information regardless of who you are!  If you're a male or a female and want to relate to the opposite or same sex EVER ......this gives you the tools you need to be successful and extraordinary!"

~ H.

The Divine Masculine Feminine Weekend Retreat

Where Conscious Masculine and Conscious Feminine Polarity Meet

April 26-28, 2024

Broomfield, CO (between Denver and Boulder)





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April 26-28, 2024

Broomfield, CO  (near Denver/Boulder)


*late registration $697 after Apr. 25

What's Included: 

2.5 Days of Experiential and Interactive Transformation

3-hour Paving the Way to Soul Love Training to watch at your leisure

60-minute Private Igniting Soul Experience with Joanna

Bring a Friend or Partner for Free

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P.P.S. Here are a few Frequently Asked Questions about the Retreat:

I'm single, is this retreat for me?  or I'm in a relationship, is this retreat for me?
Absolutely - it's a retreat for both singles and couples.  We usually have about 70% singles and 30% couples and that mix provides for wonderful learning, sharing and support.


I'm in a relationship, what if my partner isn't interested and doesn't want to participate?
Not to worry - while attending masculine and feminine retreats for couples together can support a relationship, the systems, tools, and ways of being that you will learn will still contribute greatly to your relationship… It only takes one to create change for both.


Will I have to work with other people?  Will I have to share?
No and… this retreat offers a safe environment for everyone to practice the very skills that make a relationship successful.  You don't have to step outside your comfort zone, but I'll encourage it because your comfort zone isn't where the relationship you desire or the change you seek happens.  Of course, you get to choose when, and if, you'd like to share or participate in any exercises.


I haven't had a relationship in years - is it too late?
It's never too late to love.  I've had people from their 20's to their 80's attend my events.  No matter your age, you will learn to step into your authentic self so that you can most easily attract (or re-attract) your "one".


I'm scared to open my heart again.
I honor you and I'm very sensitive to the pain you may have from previous relationships.  Trust that there will be others who are also feeling that ache.  I will be there to gently guide you… to hold your heart… and maybe even your hand… so you can find yourself opening to trust again.


Will this work for me?
The Masculine Feminine Retreat is the kind of retreat where people say, "Wow, I didn't know what I didn't know."  It opens their eyes to the power and possibility of masculine feminine polarity dynamics as it reignites hope and gives you the wisdom and practice you need to (re)attract with your soulmate and build a sustainable a soul partnership.


Can I attend part of the weekend?
It's important for you to attend the whole Masculine and Feminine retreat.  Once we start on Friday night, we'll create a conscious container for everyone to feel comfortable, exploring these important topics in a conscious and honoring way. Additionally, each topic builds on the previous so you'll want to be present for the entire event.


What are the starting and ending times each day?

We kick-off the Divine Masculine Feminine Retreat Friday night at 6:30 pm MT and finish around 9:30 pm.  (Registration begins at 6:00 pm).  Saturday we'll start at 9 am MT and finish at approximately 9:00 pm MT. (We'll take lunch and dinner breaks that day.)  Sunday we'll start at 9 am MT and finish about 5 pm MT. (We'll take a lunch break that day.)


Where is the Masculine Feminine Retreat held? 

The Divine Masculine Feminine Retreat is set to take place at the Fairfield Inn and Suites in Broomfield, CO, conveniently situated between Boulder and Denver. Whether you're journeying from out of town or seeking a tranquil escape from home, we offer two enticing booking options for your consideration. The first option is the Residence Inn, available at $139 per night, inclusive of breakfast. Alternatively, opt for the Fairfield Inn & Suites, priced at $119 per night, breakfast included. Upon registration, you will receive detailed information tailored to your stay.


What is the Love Team and how do I join it?

The Love Team is the group of men and women who register to participate in the retreat again and choose to expand their learning and enhance their experience by providing additional support to those who are participating for the first time.  This support includes helping with logistics, balancing out exercises and groups, and simply adding a loving presence to our space.  You must be a graduate of the Activating Soul Love program to join the Love Team.  If you would like to be part of the Love Team for this retreat, email us at


I have another question you didn't cover, how do I get an answer?
Questions are normal, please send them to and we'll get back to you right away!

Meet your Host and Coach for "The Divine Masculine Feminine Retreat"


The Soul Love Mentor


Joanna Shakti, The Soul Love Mentor and founder of Ecstatic Intimacy®, is smart, sexy, and a little bit spicy. You can’t miss her passion and warm playful style that both entertains and inspires. No other person on the planet possesses the experience, expertise and ability to transform lives in quite the way Joanna does. She, artfully and professionally, mixes male-female dynamics, leadership training, spiritual awakening, engineering, and even Tantra, along with a whole lot of love, to lead singles and couples who hunger for deeper love and more intimate pleasure to find and create soul-to-soul relationships where love runs deep and passion stays hot.


Ecstatic Ecstasy - Where Heart and Sex Unite and Spirit Leads

"We forget the privilege it is to place our hands, our lips, our bodies upon another body. The deepest ecstasy demands your deepest presence, your true reverence to the sacred one before you. Only when you bring your whole heart united with your soul may you enter into divine union with another."


~Joanna Shakti