Masculine Feminine Test

Masculine Feminine Test: Are You More Masculine or Feminine?

Have you wondered, “Am I more masculine or feminine?”

Would you like sparks of attraction from across the room, unforgettable kisses, and passionate sex?

And Who doesn’t?  If you DO… then you absolutely must know your sexual essencebecause when you do, and you stay aligned with it, sparks fly. When you don’t, passion fizzles.

No matter orientation or gender, it’s about energy. Simply put, masculine energy attracts feminine energy. Feminine energy attracts masculine energy.

Want to know your sexual essence?  Here are just a few of the questions that will reveal yours…

Before I share the questions… here’s what I want you to imagine.

Imagine as you answer, that you are completely safe.  Imagine that you cannot be judged or rejected. Imagine that you get to have it absolutely your way!



Question 1

Would you prefer your perfect lover to be physically larger than you, or physically smaller than you, or exactly the same size?

Question 2

Would your perfect lover be stronger than you or would you be stronger than your lover?  In other words, would your lover pick you up and move you across the bed, or would you pick your lover up, and move him or her across the bed?  Or, does it equally turn you on to be moved or do the moving?

Question 3

Would you prefer to court or be courted? In other words, would you prefer to ask out, pick up, and take to dinner, or would you prefer to be asked out, picked up, and taken to dinner? Or, does it equally turn you on to court and be courted?

Question 4

If you were in a hot, steamy kiss up against the wall, more often than not do you want to be the one facing the wall, giving the kiss, or do you want to be the one against the wall receiving the kiss? Or, does it turn you on equally to be in both positions?

Here’s what all this means. A feminine sexual essence person has a preference for a lover that is larger, who is stronger, who courts, and who puts them up against the wall.

So what do the answers to my Sexual Essence Quiz mean?

A masculine sexual essence person will prefer a lover who is smaller, who is less strong, that they can move.  A masculine person will want to court and will want to face the wall in that kiss.

For neutral, you’re going to choose equal size, equal strength, courting and being courted, and either position in that up against a wall kiss.

And here’s the thing, if you picked neutral, I’m going to invite you to reconsider… Were your answers what really turns you on, or did you answer what you think you should believe and feel?

The Bottom Line

Opposites attract.

Now that you’ve started the sexual essence quiz and you know your sexual essence (somewhat), your job, take the full quiz, and go live it!

Masculine attracts feminine… feminine attracts masculine… and sparks fly!

Male or female, if sparks aren’t flying, if you’re not attracting the one you want, then it’s time to get in touch with what I call the powerful, sexy and attractive Ecstatically Authentic you!  

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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  1. Gail on March 2, 2022 at 8:50 am

    I remember reading something of yours about how to act more manly…I remeber thinking I wanted to share it with y son. I cannot find it…Would you be able to direct me to this??

    • Soul Love on March 2, 2022 at 5:30 pm

      Hi there… Thanks for your comment and for sharing our page with your friends and family. I’m not sure which article you’re looking for, but there are many on the topic of masculine energy that your son might enjoy reading. Here is a link that should bring him to a page with links to those articles.

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