Passionate Lover

Passionate Lover & Relationship System

Below you’ll find the 9 critical elements to attracting and creating a relationship filled with lasting love and passion.  The Passionate Lover & Relationship System clearly defines each of these elements and we’ll dive much deeper into each of these essential practices in upcoming events, programs and videos so that you can fall asleep happy and in love… the way you’ve always dreamed about.

1) Become Attractive & Powerful

Find the source of your greatest power and your most attractive self so that you can be done with the friend-zone and confidently know how to create chemistry, spark and passion in every kiss, conversation or lovemaking.

2) Understand the Opposite Sex  

The confusion will fade and the frustration will disappear while love, honor, respect and appreciation replace them so that you spend less time upset and disconnected and more time happy and in love.

3) Honor & Love Yourself      

They’ve always said, “You have to love yourself before you can love another.”  End the self-sabotage while building self-respect, confidence and trust in yourself so that you can leave the loneliness behind and attract the perfect life partner.

4) Free your Heart (otherwise know as Resolve the Past)    

It seems from our first embarrassing moment, our first rejection, our first heartbreak, we begin building barriers around our heart, walls of protection that keep the hurt out… but they keep the love out too.  Release the heartbreak of the past so you can fall so deeply in love, even you’re surprised.

5)  Ignite your Sexual Passion

Society tends to tell us to hide our sexuality, even be ashamed of it.  No matter how freely expressed you feel sexually or how scared and shutdown you might feel, finding the often hidden, unconscious sexual blocks can transform once-in-a-while good sex into hot, passionate, deeply intimate lovemaking.

6)  Share your Sexuality

Freely expressing your sexuality deepens and expands pleasure for both partners.  When you share your true desires and bring conscious intimacy to your lovemaking, instead of being nervous about whether you’re really turning your lover on, you can confidently take each other to the edge of ecstasy and beyond.

7) Choose Relationship  

For many of us, except in the early days of dating, relationship can take a bottom rung position in the daily priorities, allowing love to fade and relationships to fail.  When you consciously choose to tend your relationship, disconnection and frustration turn into laughter, fun and long kisses…and that’s just the beginning.

8) Embrace Conflict

Conflict in relationship is inevitable.  Most don’t realized that every conflict is the opportunity for deeper love.  With tools to resolve quickly and completely resolve conflict, instead of thinking “Am I still in love?” you’ll keep falling in love over and over again… deeper and deeper each time.

9) Communicate Intimately

Romantic and intimate communication happens differently for men and women. We don’t understand each other’s “approach” and often tend to close down and stop communicating.  Re-open the doors to intimate communication so that heart-ache, loneliness and misunderstanding turn into happiness, romance, and harmony.

When you live the Passionate Lover and Relationship System not only will you attract and create a hot, happy, and harmonious relationship, you’ll stand powerfully as your authentic self … BECAUSE you are completely in your powerwalking tallstanding confidentlycommanding attention…  you know who you are and where you’re going.  From your power you attract that great partner.

Not only will you have the love life you’ve always wanted.  Success follows.  That’s when we generate the results we seek.  That’s when you truly make a difference in the world.  That’s when people are inexplicably drawn to you… clients… colleagues… a lover… your spouse of 30 years.

When we’re masterful and extraordinary, we’re empowered.  We attract all that we want and we actually do what we’re meant to do.  We wake up energized.  We fall asleep satisfied… and in between we’re happy and in love. This is Divine Union.

Are you ready to have an amazing life where you fall in love over and over again, where the love runs deep and the sex stays hot?

Then join us for an upcoming event… and change the course of your heart forever.

Click here for the Calendar of Events

In love, light and ecstasy,

Joanna Shakti

*At Ecstatic Intimacy, an all-inclusive website for singles and couples, we welcome all sexual orientation(s), gender(s) and relationship expressions. In this article we utilize the pronouns he/she/him/her.

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  1. michael on February 15, 2023 at 7:11 am

    can not even get a date how can i do the rest

    • Joanna Shakti on February 15, 2023 at 7:28 am

      You actually have to do the rest before you can get a date. We think we have to get a date so that we can learn how to be in a relationship. We have to learn how to be in relationship… including in relationship with ourselves… before we can find a date, certainly any kind of quality date that could turn into something lasting.

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