Self Love
Every. Single. Time. I say, as so many wise sages have said before me, “you can’t love another until you love yourself.” I hear the groans. It’s true. We don’t want to hear that. But our resistance to that very ancient truth is what keeps us separated from love. What keeps us longing for love and hoping that finally someone will accept us just as we are.
But they can’t. They can’t possibly accept you just as you are. Until you do. The truth is they probably do accept you as you are, but you can’t feel it. You can’t experience it because it doesn’t fit with the “reality” that you hold in your head. The fear “I’m not enough.” or “I’m too much.” or “I’m not worth it.” or “If they really knew me, they’d never stay.” Leave you wanting, wondering, more importantly distrusting, and unavailable.
This failure to embrace ourselves just as we are means that love - genuine romantic soulful love - can’t happen. But…
When it does. When you realize that your imperfections are your magic. When you know that not having it all together, is ok, truly ok. When your willingness to be seen in your beauty and your mess or with your incredible strength and your deep tenderness. This is when you finally create a space for partnership to blossom.
“The love within you determines the love between you.” ~Joanna Shakti
Embrace the courage it takes to explore the places you do love... and don’t love…
And know, you’re in beautiful company as you do...

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Are You Being Seen or Are you Hiding?
Are you hiding or are you being seen when it comes to dating and relationships? Or in life, for that matter? Let’s focus on romantic interactions for now… but you’ll…
Priceless Love
The brilliance of you… There is nothing more valuable than you. Now that might sound self-centered and arrogant and I invite you to hear me out. Yes… interaction with others…
The Gift of You
You… unadorned… unfiltered… uninhibited… simple…genuine…true… this is what we want. This genuine and authentic you is the most attractive, sexy, generous thing you could bring to the world. This is…
Authenticity or Perfection: What do You Choose?
Which do you choose? Authenticity or Perfection? You can’t have both and trying to choose both is a path fraught with depression, failure, and unhappiness. Need I say more? Let’s…
Prince Charming… Good or Bad?
For the masculine men, we’ll get right to the point… and then I’ll tell you the story behind it. I’ll get to prince charming in a minute, but first… What…
Sexual Self-Expression
What is sexual self-expression? It’s much more than you think. (And, sometimes we all disconnect from it… including me.) For women… it’s a creative expression. It’s a feeling expression. It’s…
Love Yourself First
Have you ever heard the phrase “you have to love yourself first before you can love another?” I can’t tell you how many times I heard it… how many people…
The Essence of Love
Love is not a science. It’s not a formula or a recipe… and it does have an ingredient. It’s does have techniques and it’s got YOU. Ingredient #1: You. It’s…
Are you worthy of love?
Wow. To be writing this article actually blows my mind. I’m coming straight out of receiving a coaching session with one of my coaches and I just had such a…
Love is a One-Person Job
Love is a one-person job. Hearing that… have you ever thought, ”I want more love in my life” or “I want more love from so-and-so”? Has your heart longed, ”I want…
What’s your Happiness Potential?
Happiness… we all want it. Many of us don’t really know what it is. Some of us know it deeply. I was one of those people that chased it for…
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