30 Sep Sexual Personalities: Are you Expressing Yours?
Is there a part of you that you don’t let out to play? Have you wondered if there’s more to sex than what you’ve experienced so far? Are you curious about aspects of sexuality and intimacy that you’ve never explored? Are you sometimes embarrassed or even ashamed of your sexual desires? Do you even know what your full sexual potential really is? Is sex a topic that’s hard to talk about – even with your lover or best friend?
I find these questions curious and I’m amazed by how many of us have limited our sexual exploration and expression. One of the “7 Secrets”, sexual and physical intimacy play a critically important part in a healthy, happy, lasting relationship, yet it remains one of the most repressed topics of conversation. That, combined with the different sexual desires and needs of men and women, makes it one of the top areas of conflict between men and women.
Over the coming weeks, I’ll invite you to discover and reveal even more of yourself – both in the bedroom and beyond. I’ll be writing several new articles to help you step more fully into your own sexual power and freedom. If you missed it, you might check out my earlier article called, Embracing your Sexuality, to look at your own conditioning around sex.
Today, let’s dive deeper into the idea of sexual personalities. Each of us has different expressions of ourselves that we bring into our intimacy (or we have them and we deny them!) When it comes to lovemaking we have moods, qualities, or personalities we enjoy or are curious about. For example, most of us know we have our slow and tender moods. We might also have our intense or hard and fast moods. Many of us, women in particular, have a sexual personality where we want to be “taken” or ravaged (Men, love and respect are pre-requisites!) In contrast, we might have a personality that wants to ravage or “take”. (Men, most women welcome this in you… many crave it… it’s ok.)
Did you know we have sexual personalities that express our divine essences? They might be referred to as God or Goddess. How about healer? Did you know our sexuality actually heals and you could be a powerful healer in your sexual expression? How about manifesting? Our sexual energy is the most powerful manifesting energy that exists.
Of course, there’s the wild side. We joke about it. We tease about it. Many of us long to release it. It inspires us to send Tarzan and Jane type yells out to the ethers! Then there are our fantasies that play out silently in our imaginations. What would it be like to play them out in real life? Or, at least share them with your partner?!
Sexually, what personalities or qualities do you hold back?
Which personalities are you ready to explore more? Wild? Tender? Warrior? Goddess?
Or have you hidden your sexual expression away for so long that you don’t even know what it is anymore? Are you feeling disconnect from your own passion, juiciness, or sexual inspiration? Is your whole desire for sex waning?
It’s time for your freedom! It’s time for your pleasure!
We’ve been told in so many ways that our sexuality and its dimensions, variations and personalities are shameful, bad or undesirable. We’ve tried to fit the “molds” in our minds of acceptability. Many of us are so confused we don’t know how to be. We’re afraid to embarrass ourselves. We’re afraid of judgment or rejection. Sometimes we’re afraid of hurting our partner.
What are you afraid of?
What stops you from fully expressing yourself?
If you’ve been holding back a part of yourself in the bedroom… If you’re confused about what the opposite sex wants… If you are ready for deeper passion, orgasms and ecstasy then you must join us for Conscious Sexuality in October. Sexual personalities is just one of the many many topics we’ll explore during this playful, respectful, enlightening and freeing weekend!
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