08 Feb When the Masculine Holds Presence
I wrote a bit about masculine presence two weeks ago in the article called, When the Feminine Shines. So this week let’s explore that topic more deeply and see what happens When the Masculine Holds Presence. First, you probably know from reading my articles and hearing me speak that I am committed to reuniting the authentic masculine and feminine at home and in the business world.
When authentic masculine and feminine show up together we ignite a powerful force!
Men and women were designed in different bodies, with different energies and different interests. The compliment we create together is unbelievably impressive!
Unfortunately, over the over the last 50 years, we’ve been conditioned to be like one another and it’s as if society has almost wanted us to eliminate or deny any differences between the sexes. Ugh! In doing that, we’ve sacrificed so much not only in our romantic relationships, but also in our business relationships. This topic isn’t often explored in the business world and, the truth is, businesses who begin to embrace and capitalize on the complimentary nature of the masculine and feminine will soar to new heights of business success. I’ll write more on that another day.
So let’s talk about presence, one of the most powerful aspects of masculine energy. What do we mean by presence? You’ve experienced it… you know when you’re speaking to someone and it’s almost as if their attention is riveted on you, even if you’re not looking directly at each other. You can feel their energy; you know they are there with you. Compare that to when you know the other person’s attention is elsewhere… even when they ARE looking at you. Women, how much freer do you feel when you are being held in an embrace of presence?
Men, so how do you increase your presence? Start by feeling your feet on the ground. Or if you’re in bed (presence is super important for great lovemaking) feel your body’s presence in the bed… feel that you are there touching the bed, touching her. Standing, sitting, making love, wherever you are, be in your body. “There” does not mean thinking in your head. It means being clearly and deeply in your body. There will likely be a stillness, a grounded-ness. Your movement then comes from this centeredness. Try it… practice it.
When you really drop in, when you are in your body and present, the woman (or women) around you will respond. Practice and play. See how she responds. Watch her face; notice her body. As you fully step into your masculine presence you will automatically polarize her more into her feminine, which fuels you…which frees her. The delicious yummy cycle begins and continues.
The masculine is fueled by the feminine. The feminine is set free by the masculine.